Humanising Separation

50% of first marriages end in divorce and of those, 47.1% involve children under 18 years. When children are involved in the conflict of separating parents, the impacts can be devastating, and many families can exacerbate this conflict by getting unnecessarily caught up in the adversarial family law system. This series will reimagine what the system could look like for those most impacted and by doing so, we’ll show there is a better way to separate, as well as provide compelling evidence to lawmakers and government about why change can and should happen.

Not only do we want to show separating couples why they should avoid the adversarial system, but as part of the making of the film, our expert design team will create a solution designed to help people navigate the human side of separation. The larger outreach campaign will see the film used to lobby lawmakers and government by offering a roadmap for change, as well as compelling reasons for existing practitioners to engage in change.

The short-term outcomes we hope to see is a shift for audiences in terms of what they would do or advise their friends and families to do, if they are separating or considering separating. For those who have experienced separation, we would like to see them give voice to why our solution is important.

The medium-term outcomes we hope to see are ongoing views and engagement with our series and community after the initial release, as well as widespread adoption of our solution by separating families and those embroiled in conflict. In simple terms, this solution will be for all separating couples - no matter their background - to navigate and resolve their conflict as peacefully as humanly possible.

The long-term outcomes we hope to see would be legislative. We would like to see either our solution, or something comparable, be mandated as the first step for separating couples before they can engage a lawyer.

This project was inspired during the creation of a 30-minute film (Family is Family) to celebrate ten years of the MELCA. MELCA practices a form of ‘Collaborative Law’, a type of Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR). The goal of Family is Family was to tell the story of separation and how ADR can minimise the impacts of family separation. Below is a link to the extended trailer: https://vimeo.com/374846875

MELCA is the first ‘friend of the project’, and they have been supporting the project from the very beginning.

Additionally, Humanising Separation will take this issue into what could be ground-breaking territory through our partnership with Dr Melis Senova and her team at Huddle. Our collective goal is to not only come up with valuable solutions to this issue, but to demonstrate the value of building out solutions based on the needs of the humans affected, also known as, Human Centred Design.

1. We want audiences that are in the process of separating (or experiencing conflict) to be encouraged to make better choices.
2. We want audiences who know those affected by separation and the family law system to recommend our film and the solution (if relevant) we develop.
3. We want organisations and practitioners who work with children to be inspired and empowered by what we uncover.
4. We want relevant audiences (e.g. schools and organisations whose primary audience are parents) to hold screenings or promote the film as a result of what we reveal.
5. We want influencers to reference and support our film and resources during relevant news cycles, to help keep the national conversation on point.
6. We want universities to use our film to inspire legal professionals to see family breakdown as more than just a legal issue.
7. We want audiences and their networks to help us champion and drive meaningful legislative change.

The short-term indicators will be measured via the engagement with the series and solution, as well as the growth of our community. We would also use some qualitative measures to get a sense of how the film and the solution is translating; what information is being retained; as well as the user experience of the solution. This will help us understand and explore what else we could be doing to enable us to achieve our goals.

The medium-term indicators we will be looking at is growth in the use of our solution and the outcomes of those that are using it. We will also be looking at the influence of our community, as well as how the film is being used by organisations and universities.

The long-term indicators will be a direct result of government and lawmaker interest and action based on the solution we develop.